Every October, countless families face a critical decision: how do we honor tradition while navigating the growing darkness that Halloween now represents? The evening before All Hallows’ Day is a time meant to honor the saints, yet it has been overtaken by ghoulish costumes and nightmarish themes. This stark reality should provoke a serious conversation among Christian households.
Halloween’s transformation has turned parents’ moods into a mix of apprehension and humor, as illustrated by a humorous quip about a mother torn between allowing her children to dress up or ensuring they reach Heaven. It’s a reality check: we can no longer simply dismiss Halloween as child’s play.
While it’s true that today’s Halloween celebrations often skew towards the grotesque, there remains a vibrant space for family fun that doesn’t flirt with the occult. It’s entirely possible to revel in the excitement of this season while staying true to one’s values. I’ve witnessed this balance firsthand.
### A Nod to More Innocent Times
Growing up in Pittsburgh, my siblings and I thrived in community spaces like the Sarah Heinz House, a local gem where kids gathered to swim, play, and create without the distraction of screens. Sadly, such treasures have fallen to the wrecking ball in recent years, replaced by modern developments.
Every Halloween, our youth club hosted spirited costume parties, and creative costumes were paramount, as anything too macabre was promptly scorned. One year, I donned a trash bag with cleverly cut holes and a rice hat, proudly posing as a “Chinese Garbage Bag.” To my surprise, that bizarre display earned the title of “Most Original Costume”—a stark contrast to today’s sensitivities.
Despite the prevailing creepiness of Halloween, there’s still a desire among many families to celebrate with cleverness over horror. If it means opting out of the mainstream options altogether, that’s perfectly acceptable too.
### New York’s Halloween Capital
In Tarrytown, New York, Halloween isn’t just another holiday; it’s an extravagant event, dwarfing even Christmas. The spirit of Washington Irving and his haunting tale bursts to life every October with parades and reenactments, drawing crowds that are more amused than afraid.
However, there are moments when lines are crossed. Some events can veer too far into the gruesome, particularly in light of current events that remind us this season should promote enjoyment rather than dread. There’s a time for thrills, but common sense should always prevail.
### Scary, But Silly
For families who prefer a lighter take on fright, I urge you to revisit some classic films. Disney’s 1949 adaptation of “The Legend of Sleepy Hollow,” narrated by Bing Crosby, strikes the ideal balance between charm and spookiness. My own perennial favorite is “The Ghost and Mr. Chicken,” starring Don Knotts—a delightful romp that entertains without terror.
And if you’re up for something unique yet endearing, my own amateur film, “The Chartreuse Goose,” is available on YouTube. It’s a humble attempt at humor that pays homage to the comedic spirit of Knotts himself.
### Books for the Brave
For those yearning for an autumn read with a hint of the supernatural, Jonathan Cahn’s “The Avatar” offers a solid blend of fiction and thought-provoking commentary on modern spirituality. Alternatively, for children grappling with fear, my book “Hamster Holmes: Afraid of the Dark?” provides a more comforting approach without the hauntings.
### The Light Beyond the Lanterns
Ultimately, October should not pit faith against fun. With the right choices, families can celebrate the spirit of the season, honor the saints, enjoy good food, and perhaps share a laugh at the antics of Don Knotts.
As Halloween fades and November begins, let’s shift our focus toward the genuine seasons of joy—Thanksgiving and Christmas—where light prevails and hope abounds.
